Category: Lifestyle

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[dropcap]T[/dropcap]his week we reach the middle point of our one-year-long “True Story Project”! So far we’ve had six months of simple, and real ‘behind-the-scenes’ stories of life shared by young Christians from all different walks of life.

In December last year, I was chatting with a group of friends as we were just beginning work, leaving school and cracking on at university. While we were discussing together the huge transition from school to the wider world we realised that growing up and living life brings a whole heap of different changes, challenges, and experiences. Throughout all these changes, we had found it immensely helpful for our faith and walk with God to share with each other our stories of life — with all its lows and highs. We wanted to open up the conversation to a wider audience, in the hope that you as the reader will be inspired to seek God more, encouraged that there are others in your shoes, and challenged to live differently.

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The beginning of the year, January, is a time when we tend to encounter ‘Expectations’. Often the things we expect from others and what others expect from us are often very far from the reality. So then, we shared stories about expectations from God, yourself, friends, and family. Here’s what one writer learnt about experiencing expectations from friends, “It turns out that these expectations provide great opportunities to challenge presumptions and show people an authentic love for Jesus and, most importantly, his love for them. Every expectation is an opportunity for authenticity.”

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In our culture, relationships are a big deal and often at the front of young people’s minds. So then, in February, the month of Valentines Day, we wanted to ask how we navigate the tricky world of relationships — What is the Christian response to a world where love is a buzzword and singleness is strange?

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March is the beginning of Lent, a time for remembering the time when Jesus went without food and drink. Jesus became human for our sake and He made the ultimate sacrifice of giving up His life for our salvation. Today, this sort of sacrifice is a really difficult challenge and totally countercultural. So then, what does sacrifice even mean? How do we sacrifice in our day-to-day life?

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What does it mean to be happy? Am I happy? Is it ok not to be happy all the time? Happiness is one of the most enticing and elusive things ever, so we decided to spend April sharing stories about the depths of joy found in walking with Jesus. This was one our favourite months because it touched on something that is right at the core of human experience — the pursuit of happiness. Through our stories, we hoped to show how this pursuit can only be satisfied in the all-out-pursuit of following Jesus.

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During May, we touched on something that was underlying at least one of the stories about happiness — Anxiety. Anxiety takes many different forms and most people face in some way. We all need to find ways of coping with stress, worry and struggles with anxiety. One of our writers shared this, “…Don’t believe the lie that God isn’t there for you. Don’t make yourself guilty over what you feel. It’s all part of being human, and Jesus knows what that is like best of all…”. In the next story, the author wrote, ”We have a kind Father who is prepared to let us suffer and struggle, within limits, to discover that deeper vein of heroism within ourselves”.

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In June we have looked more specifically at how faith has a direct impact on how we live our lives. Our faith is living and active, its not about following rules or law, rather it comes from a place of first and foremost following God. June’s stories look more closely at how this works out in our normal day-to-day life — i.e. how does being a Christian change my attitude towards work or how I relate to other people? Among others, we looked at a lifestyle of action, where the author’s outlook had been shaped by Jim Elliot’s radical statement “He is no fool who gives what he cannot keep, to gain what he cannot lose”.

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Our prayer, as editors, is that you will read these stories and be encouraged, helped and inspired as you follow Jesus. The Christian life isn’t straightforward, particularly for young people who are navigating new territory. We hold the conviction that living life with Jesus makes sense of it all – bringing true meaning, hope and purpose to life.

What about you? We would love for you to let us know your favourite stories or the ones that have challenged and encouraged you. It would also be great if you could invite others into the conversation by sharing these stories amongst your friends and family — anyone you feel would be blessed by these stories.

(P.S. Join us for the next 6 months by following us on Instagram and Facebook for weekly updates!)

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I was in a unique position to draw upon their individual knowledge and wisdom as well as their experience of working with the Lord together. This month’s theme is ‘Lifestyle’ so I was eager to ask questions and understand their thoughts and reflections on a lifetime spent walking with the Lord.
Abraham and Sarah, our couple, ran the orphanage in Zimbabwe for 26 years and saw the Lord move and work in many people’s lives both physically and spiritually.

Esther who continues to work at the orphanage after 28 years and pastor the local church is the third voice in this conversation.

I’ve edited for brevity, but the message they wanted to convey is, I hope, faithfully told as follows:

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Me: Firstly, what does it mean to live a Christian lifestyle, and truly live for the Lord?

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Abraham: When I first became a Christian, I didn’t really understand it. It was more of a tradition. All my family in previous generations had done it. They had all been Christian. I knew of the Lord but I didn’t have a personal relationship.

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Me: What changed that for you?

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Abraham: It was about 44 years ago. Six weeks after my first wife passed away I was left alone with four young boys. I sat in my office and tried to read my Bible. I say ‘tried’ because I was challenging the Lord. I told the Lord that I found it very difficult to accept that He loved or cared for me. Why he would allow this to happen if He says in scripture that he loves us so much. Then it was just as real as you sitting there I heard the Lord speak to me audibly. He said, “Stop feeling so sorry for yourself and start praising. Start giving thanks and praise for four healthy sons.” So I sat bolt upright and said, “Lord, that is true. I have four healthy sons. Thank you!” This experience woke me up. Changed me completely. I knew he was real.

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Me: What has been of the most encouragement for you all in your lives?

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Abraham: If you have a personal relationship with the Lord it makes all the difference. It is the difference. When you can feel the presence of the Lord, when you know that he’s always there, he’s always with you, always around you, that you’re never ever separated from the Lord, that is the encouragement you get.

Esther: Nothing majorly dramatic I think it’s been little things along the way. They may seem inconsequential but aren’t. Mainly It’s been a constant awareness of peace. Peace that I know where I’m supposed to be.

One of the significant things, more in recent years, I went through a very difficult time when I was actually fighting to stay in the country (Zimbabwe) as the government had given me a very short period of time to leave the country. It went on for a long time. It was horrendously emotional. I didn’t share it with many people at the orphanage. I didn’t want them to worry about it. I woke up one morning and couldn’t get up. I had had enough and decided I couldn’t fight anymore. A colleague of mine thankfully came to my house wondering why I was not yet up and got me to church. I was reminded during the service of a scripture in Isaiah. The way it was presented in the service was actually a fulfilment of a prophecy that the Lord had given me before I even came to Zimbabwe. I left that service knowing I could keep going, and that God was in control. I had been reminded of the Lord’s promise. That was enough. So I say again, its been the little things. Confirmation and encouragement here and there.

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Me: Would you reject the idea that Christianity should be a religious lifestyle?

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Esther: I have a relationship. I don’t like religion although I think some disciplines are crucial like connecting with Jesus every day. It’s how I can carry on.

Abraham: Having a relationship is the difference.

Esther: You’ve got to get alone with God. Come before Him every day and be still. It’s not so easy in a busy world but you’ve got to turn your phone off and put it away. For me setting time apart often in the mornings or even in the afternoons (if I can) with the word of God open is so important.

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Me: Christ tells us to take up our cross daily and follow him. How important is this and what does it mean for you?

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Sarah: I’ve often thought about the cross and that verse. I think it means that in each tricky situation where a sacrifice is involved to get alone with God. You can either do it the uncomplicated way, my way, or the more difficult way which is God’s way. It’s taking up your cross. To do that daily you have to discipline yourself.

Abraham: It’s essential!

Sarah: I’ve learned to live my life through getting into the presence of God and reading His word. It’s that kind of lifestyle. So I would agree with Esther , you could say it is religion, but in fact to me it has been life. In times gone by when we needed to hear from God about what to do next concerning the children’s home we turned to the Lord and he’s never failed to guide us. The word of God has been the mainstay of my life.

Esther: There was a sense for many Christians at that time in Zimbabwe that we had to stay deeply anchored in the Lord, and we had to stay sharp spiritually. Because any vehicle that came up to our gates could have been full of armed people who were ready to massacre us. We had to stay in a place where if God said to do something then you did it.

Abraham: I’ll tell you something, not at any time was I terrified.
Sarah: We didn’t have any sense of fear because we knew the Lord’s angels were around us. I know it may ridiculous to some but there was a sense in which there was an amazing adventure going on.

Esther: There one thing about this that’s very relevant to young Christians today; It’s the tendency to want the Christian life to be easy. To want it simple with where all the answers come. For us going through those times it really sharpened us a built us up. It strengthened our faith in God.

Sarah: It was a privilege

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Me: It sounds like this whole experience has changed you massively. But not everyone is called to Zimbabwe or even experience the things you experienced. What would you say to Christians who are genuinely trying to live life for God in a not so hostile environment.

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Esther: I think what you don’t do is go looking for difficulty. Whatever the Lord puts in front of you, whatever challenge, don’t shy away from it. I would say you should do three things: Seek the Lord, Pray through them, and praise through them.

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Me: What would you say to young Christians growing up in a world that has so much on offer.

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Sarah: Examine your motives for why you do things.

Esther: That’s right, check yourself. Make sure the things you’re doing are bringing you more into line with his will, and more into line in your relationship.

Abraham: From an early age I can say that I knew when I was in the wrong place. I always felt the Holy Spirit leading me into and away from certain decisions and circumstances.

Esther: Another thing I’d add is that somethings are beneficial for you but not for me. There’s not always a clear line. Do not go with the crowd! That’s why it’s about relationship.

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Me: How would you describe your walks with the Lord in a word or a sentence?

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Esther: Fun! It’s an adventure! It’s the most intimate relationship.

Abraham: It’s commitment. And the best is yet to come. Always. The Deeper you get the more interesting it becomes.

Sarah: I think it comes back to the Holy Spirit, and just saying, “Lord, fill me!” on a daily basis.

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[dropcap]A[/dropcap]s a child I would read wide-eyed, soaking in the stories of Jim Elliot. I was fascinated with the idea of venturing into the ‘unknown’ to proclaim the Gospel to those people groups who had never heard it, let alone been discovered. These stories came back to mind the other day while I was on the train back home from university reflecting on three long years of study. I realised that the purposeful “all out for Jesus” lifestyle that Jim lived had resonated deeply with me and helped shape the way I have viewed my own lifestyle. I see a life of purpose as simply any life which pulsates and resonates with an all-out pursuit of God and his glory, and which actively seeks to invite him into every area of life. In this story, I’ve written about three key areas that this works out in my life — friendships, love, and the future.

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God is all about relationship and he is has designed our friendships to be purposeful.

Take church for example. One huge lesson that I’ve learnt while at uni, is that friendships in church are designed by God for the purpose of encouragement, strengthening and mutual pointing towards Jesus. That’s been a tricky one for me — I didn’t feel like I ‘needed’ any new Christian friends and wanted to put my energy into telling people about Jesus. This meant that I missed on the blessings which came with local Christian friends. So only since the beginning of this year, when God convicted my pride and false sense of “self-sufficiency”, have I really begun to enjoy and value church and the friendships that come with it.

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Aside from Church, my friendships are purposeful. I’ve grown up with some great Christian friends, and we have been intentional in helping one another press on with Jesus. One of the ways we do this is by praying about and sharing our different experiences of life together. “The True Story Project” emerged out of mutual desire among some of these friends to work out ways in which we could help people learn to love Jesus in everyday life, regardless of where they are at with God. It’s this sort of purposeful friendship that has been an enormous benefit to my relationship with God throughout uni. Through reading and connecting with these stories, our prayer is that True Story may, in a similar way, be immensely helpful and beneficial to you, whatever stage of life you might be at.

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God’s love is purposeful. It isn’t random or erratic, it is expressed with intent and design (1 John 3:16).

This means then that my girlfriend and I, as beneficiaries of God’s purposeful love, aim to love each other in a similar way. We haven’t got into a relationship to be comfortable, but rather to stir one another towards loving God and to help one another do our utmost to serve him. This means that the boundaries we set, the way we conduct ourselves, the things we choose to do and not do, all are guided by a deep desire to genuinely reflect God’s love (pure, holy, light — 1 John) to one another and to those around us. Spelling out this intentional purposefulness doesn’t take away from the spontaneity or romance of love, rather I believe it adds a real depth and integrity to our relationship. Don’t get the wrong idea — by no means are we nailing this ‘purposefulness’ day-in and day-out, but God is gracious, and as we see with David, God delights in those who are sold out in pursuit of him.

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Looking to the future I recognise that a ‘life of purpose’ isn’t something that I can contrive or achieve by my own means.

As young people, we have the same range of choices that everyone around us has: A-levels, university, jobs, future spouse, churches, etc… What makes us distinctive? I believe that our choices, motivations and actions should be distinctively shaped by God’s call for us to pursue him through a lifestyle of purpose.

A life of purpose is fundamentally one of surrender — it means holding out all that I am to Jesus, who offers me life in its fullness. This “life of fullness” is a radically counter-cultural lifestyle that the world doesn’t understand. It’s the sort of lifestyle where I am called to take up my cross and follow Jesus. The sort of lifestyle where Jim’s words ring true — “He is no fool who gives what he cannot keep to gain what he cannot lose”. This means that it isn’t easy or straightforward — it’s a struggle, an uphill battle, but also one which we are made and equipped by God to undertake.

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[dropcap]H[/dropcap]ow do we actually live a life that is full of love?

I guess a good place to start is to define what ‘love’ is. As a Christian, the way we’re often told to understand love is found in:

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“Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonour others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres . . .”

1 Corinthians 13

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Isn’t it interesting that all that is outlined in the Paul’s long description of ‘love’ 1 Corinthians 13 matches up with Jesus’ life and actions? This is something I know from my own experience! He’s been more patient, more kind, more hopeful, more bearing of my flaws, more enduring of my rambling prayers and times of wandering than anyone else. I know for a fact that this is not going to change any time soon.

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Recently, I’ve been faced with some pretty big decisions about my future. Fear of not choosing the ‘right thing’ has almost been crippling, but God has been bringing to my attention one word that has been appearing everywhere, sacrifice. It’s not a pleasant word by today’s standards; it implies doing things you’d rather not do – maybe going outside of your comfort zone, giving up things you really wanted, and letting go of things you’d much rather keep. One look at the life and works of Jesus though, and all I can see is sacrifice. I think about His example and the whole idea that ‘if you’re not comfortable you’re in the wrong place,’ is completely challenged. I’ve come to realise that my life is, as the song says, is, “not my own, it all belongs to You.”

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Perhaps a helpful way to understand my thought-process can be found in Romans 12:5: “So in Christ we, though many, form one body, and each member belongs to all the others.” My decisions don’t just affect me, but I have to consider how they will impact those around me in a way that communicates love. The decisions made by Jesus where never for His own comfort; he didn’t live a life of self-preservation. The love that he showed has never and will never be equalled – if I want even a small piece of that kind of lifestyle, I have to be willing to make sacrifices. Knowing that every day the breath in my lungs is from God, gives a little bit of perspective.

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Society is obsessed with the prioritisation of ‘self.’ I want to disagree with this entire ethos. If our definition of what we truly deserve aligned more with Scripture, I’m convinced our perspective of what we are entitled to would diminish, and one by one we would consider each other “better than ourselves” (Philippians 2:3). Once we have our eyes fixed outside of ourselves, we would be able to live out a genuine life of love towards others.

Living a lifestyle of love doesn’t mean simple tolerance. It doesn’t mean just being nice to people. Love is the nitty gritty, putting self second, demonstrating Jesus to everyone, regardless of how you feel. I know for me, that’s something I aspire to do every single day — a habit, built up from discipline and motivated by what we’ve received.

Bottom line: it is because of love that we exist and love can define our entire lifestyle.

“We love because he first loved us.” – 1 John 4:19

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[dropcap]P[/dropcap]ersonally, I grapple with the function of prayer in the life of a Christian. Simply speaking, it requires talking with the Being who created this world yet cannot be seen. Because of this, it is difficult for me to approach prayer with the same authenticity and earnestness as a normal face-to-face interaction. It seems to me that this is a peculiarity of faith which must be addressed by the earnest Christian. From Genesis to Revelation, the Bible records the prayers of God’s people throughout the millennia: prayers of thanks, supplication, praise, and for salvation. Undoubtedly, prayer is a fundamental aspect of following Jesus. It is therefore essential to aim toward a ‘lifestyle of prayer.’

If it is agreed that a lifestyle of prayer is desirable, it is necessary to consider practically what this can be defined as. I Thess. 5:17-18 succinctly presents this way of life: “ Rejoice always, pray without ceasing, give thanks in all circumstances; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you.” We’re told to ‘pray without ceasing’ – but that’s ridiculous, right? How can this be accomplished in the frantic, frenzied void that is 21st-century life?

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Arguably, Paul’s instruction here can be interpreted to encompass several different areas of life. First, it implies that we must consider ourselves dependent on God. It could be described as a disposition which places continual reliance on God’s power in our lives. This does not require constant conscious communication with God, but rather a frame of mind. It may seem a bit ‘airy-fairy,’ but this is a significant indicator of Christian faith: a deep, profound reliance on God which permeates every aspect of life.

​A second, and perhaps more practical, meaning is simply a recommendation to pray often. Pray, whether you find yourself in dire circumstances or at joyful occasions. This builds on the previous point as it requires a state of mind where God is the first thing you turn to, whatever the circumstances.

The story of Nehemiah is particularly relevant here. When faced with a perilous and life-changing moment in the king’s court, he paused for a moment and “prayed to the God in Heaven,” before continuing to make his request (Nehemiah 2:1-8). In his time of true fear he turned to God and was granted his request. This is perhaps a drastic example, but it is emblematic of the instruction to ‘pray without ceasing.’

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​The final meaning which can be derived from this statement is the practical recommendation to set aside time each day to pray – a common enough suggestion you have probably heard multiple times from the pulpit. Personally, I find regular ‘timetabled’ prayer strangely difficult to keep up. Maybe it’s because I’m not a ‘morning person’ (or some other fairly stereotypical excuse). However, As habitual creatures, some form of ‘discipline’ when it comes to prayer is very useful in the pursuit of a lifestyle of prayer. Whether it’s during a commute, an evening walk or by the bedside at the crack of dawn, a consistent prayer life is an important aspect of the Christian walk. There are examples of this form of prayer life in the Bible, most notably the prophet Daniel. According to chapter six of his book, Daniel prayed and gave thanks to God three times a day – a routine which, of course, landed him quite literally in a den of lions. While it is not necessary to follow this specific formula, this story does demonstrate this tenant of a lifestyle of prayer.

​For myself, I intend to find a combination of these three meanings derived from ‘pray without ceasing;’ A state of mind of dependency on God, a clear intention to pray often in all circumstances of life and a regular disciplined time dedicated to prayer.

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