Our Story

Over and Out!

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Dear reader,

[dropcap]I[/dropcap] want to start by asking perhaps a personal question – how have you felt when someone has been honest, real and true with you in sharing their life story?

Awkward? Encouraged? Hopeful?

Maybe none of the above?

True Story Project was like an oasis to me at a time where insecurity, doubt and fear filled my life and I felt like the only one in the world going through a period of struggle. It was so easy to become isolated in my own little bubble and I didn’t know how to break free from it.

As I began to read the stories, one in particular, I realised that ‘struggles’ are a part of everyone’s lives at some point or another. Not only did this give me peace, it also gave me hope; hope that there was light at the end of a dark tunnel.

You see, your life, your testimony and your story could be someone’s hope. Don’t be shy to share and talk about your journey or perhaps think that what you might share is “insignificant”. Believe me, it’s not.

It has been a privilege to be part of the True Story Project team. It’s deep in my heart to carry on this amazing blog that started as a one year project. So I would like to let you know that, even though the website won’t be active for a period of time, the stories will go on via Instagram! #yaaasqueen.

If you want to share your story, perhaps some tips on certain topics, don’t be shy and fly them across to us either via email or Instagram.

Thank you for all your support throughout this year.

Yours truly,

Director of Social

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Our Story

The story behind the stories

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[dropcap]I[/dropcap]’ve always loved stories. I remember as a child reading about the missionary Jim Elliot in the jungles of Ecuador and being utterly captivated. His story has been so important for me as I’ve navigated my way through my teens and tried to work out what I should do with my life! I think there is much to learn through watching and hearing about the lives of others. This is what the True Story Project has been all about — enabling real-life stories from young Christians about life and faith, with all the highs and lows, to be heard. Our prayer has been that through reading these stories, you might be motivated, encouraged and excited to follow Jesus! 

I’ll put it to you that one of the most amazing stories of all time is the story of the Apostle Paul. Paul hated Christians. Yet one day, on his way to Damascus (to imprison Christians) he met with Jesus in the most remarkable way (Acts 9). As a result of this, he became totally sold on the good news of Jesus — a radical change! In a letter to a church in Galatia, Paul describes his experience as a transformation from death to life (Galatians 2:20). Paul’s story is amazing, not only because of his missionary journeys or shipwrecks or multiple imprisonments, but rather because his story is one which shows the result of a life totally transformed by Jesus.

While I might not have had a dramatic experience like Paul’s (I’m pretty ordinary), my story is in many ways similar. Like Paul’s, mine is a story of ‘death to life’ in which I was totally dead in my sin, and yet, through the life-giving, saving power of Jesus’ death and resurrection I have been radically transformed. Through Jesus I have been restored from this point of nothingness and death, and recreated into someone who is alive and fully able to embrace the meaning, depth and vibrance of life. 

My story is one of privilege and grace. I’ve been raised by parents who have encouraged me to get to know God. Yet, I’ve so often lived in a way which has been in direct opposition to God’s character and holiness. So often I’ve blatantly rejected his calling over my life and lived in a way contrary to the one I have been designed for. But God is so generous and good. Regardless of my mistakes and disrespect towards him, he loves me. Utterly loves me. Through his grace, he has used the stories in my life — those of Jim Elliot, the apostle Paul, and my parents — to show me what a life sold out for Jesus looks like, and then inspired me to live it! 

The True Story Project has given me the opportunity to place some of my own stories alongside those of others — to be a part of this small and beautiful tapestry of God’s work in the lives of real people. Stories and people with different experiences and perspectives, yet all woven together by the story of Christ and the life his death and resurrection brings.

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Our Story

Putting off Procrastination

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[dropcap]D[/dropcap]eadlines are looming, time is slipping away and I find myself unable to tear my gaze from my smartphone screen. Sound familiar?

The dopamine drip humans get from consuming short snippets of YouTube, Instagram, Facebook and other medias is highly addictive and extremely subtle. I couldn’t work out why the things I either needed or wanted to do, like my work, my creative writing and even picking up my Bible seemed so impossible. As I was sat with my work in front of me – and my smartphone in front of my work – I realised I was a slave to the trivial reward systems of my brain. I knew it, and yet I still did everything I could to avoid those things that were good for me to do.

So, what did I do?

I started three daily habits (though far from perfectly), to DO the things I WANTED to do, and not to do the things I knew I shouldn’t.

1) I watched

To watch, is to be alert of what you know you should and want to do and realize why you are not achieving. Self-analysis is the key for a conviction to change.

2) I prayed

Praying and bringing every detail to the Father. I was not just accountable to myself, but also to the one who gave me the talents I was wasting.

3) I ‘stood’

Using a pen and paper, I wrote myself a short list of achievable goals for that day. Writing a short to-do-list turned out to be a pivotal part to my standing. It was not just a list, it was a realistic challenge and a commitment before me and the LORD.

(Luke 21:34-36)

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Our Story

Our Story – Part 1

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[dropcap]T[/dropcap]he True Story Project comes to an end this month. Rather than bring you a boring topic about something irrelevant to your life, we thought we would share with you the stories we know best: our own.

The True Story Project was born from the vision of two friends. I had been to visit someone in hospital. They were admitted due to mental health challenges that meant it was unsafe for them to be outside of full-time care and observation. 

I left that hospital shaken up and very sad. Their family was a Christian family, some of the most lovely people I had ever met. How do such good people cope with such terrible circumstances? What help can I offer them?

The next day, I was driving in my car and heard part of a church service on the radio. There was a point in the transmission when the minister prayed for those who were ‘sick in mind or in body.’ I realised then that Christians had been dealing with ‘current’ issues like mental health for a very long time. Surely, if people were still becoming Christians, there must be something to their coping mechanisms? Either that, or I was wasting my time on a religion that had no purpose. Was there any point in believing in a ‘good’ God without any evidence to show for it?

I had been fortunate. In my life, I had lived through a number of event . These stories were what kept me going. The ‘blood of the Lamb’ (trusting in Jesus for salvation) and the words of the saints’ testimonies (stories Christians would tell of how God had pulled through for them and ‘showed up’) – these kept me going. Knowing that my faith was something solid meant that I was doing more than just waste my time. I knew that my faith was real. 

But did everyone else? What about the other people – particularly young ones – who maybe weren’t quite so sure? They knew their own experiences of faith. They could recount times when God had answered their prayers, introduced them to relationships they needed or led them through experiences that shaped who they are. But they didn’t see anyone else doing it.

I was fortunate, because I had a number of good friends who were in the same position as me. I spoke to one of those friends the day after I had visited the hospital. It turned out that he had been thinking along very similar lines. I had wanted to write something (because writing was something I could do) to help families of those struggling with mental health. My good friend pieced everything else together and we realised that we could do something useful together.  

Mental health is an issue very close to my heart. This is partly because it is something I have struggled with in my own life. (I have struggled with it hugely, in fact.) 

The True Story Project gave me the opportunity to share some of my own struggles – and victories – in a non-judgemental way. There are members of my family who don’t know what I’ve gone through. There’s no way I could have shared what I have been able to write about unless it was in an anonymous format, like this. 

I hope it has been helpful to some people. We said right from the beginning that if the True Story Project was helpful for one person then it would be worth doing at all. Maybe there have been people that have read the stories over the last twelve months who haven’t been touched by it, but perhaps there is one person for whom that one story made all the difference, and literally changed a life. To that one person: we love you, and we did it for you, friend.  

Yours truly,
Director of Content

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Every Day with God

Mary, Martha, and Me

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[dropcap]L[/dropcap]ooking at the story of Mary and Martha I see what can be instinctive in me. For those who don’t know the story – Jesus is having dinner with two sisters; one of whom is willing to listen to Him (Mary), and the other is more concerned about catering for the guests and getting everything prepared (Martha). Martha suddenly turns on them both in a tirade that to some might sound familiar, “Lord, don’t you care that my sister has left me to do the work by myself? Tell her to help me!”

I see it like this; there is a line between me fulfilling my responsibilities and letting my responsibilities fulfil me. In the story of Mary and Martha we see that Martha has chosen to let the responsibilities and perception of her preparation define her evening. Mary on the other hand gets it and decides that she just wants to sit at the feet of Jesus. She wants to engage, listen, and be filled by Jesus’ words which are eternal life. It’s so easy to take a dig at Martha because ‘who wouldn’t want to sit with Jesus?’ – I catch myself drifting into that hypocrisy sometimes. Do you?

So, what was Jesus’ response to Martha? “Martha, Martha,” the Lord answered, “you are worried and upset about many things, but few things are needed—or indeed only one. Mary has chosen what is better, and it will not be taken away from her.” Jesus praises Mary for her obedience and sensitivity to the situation. She perceives that Jesus has some important stuff to say. On the other hand Jesus calls Martha out and sets her thinking straight.

I’ve made the mistake of thinking that God is not interested in the menial details of my day to day life and that he just wants to fulfil my calling, you know, the big stuff. This is so untrue, firstly, because personal holiness is at stake –being made like Jesus. Secondly, because God cares about how He is represented here on the earth. This has required me to reevaluate the weight of importance that I’ve placed on certain aspects in my life – even my dreams. It can be deceiving to place these goals and dreams on pedestals. They become daunting if not balanced with the reality of Christ.

I’ve realised how important it is to start every day in earnest prayer. It makes it easier to face each task and responsibility seeing them as opportunities to manifest the Fruit of the Spirit. Instead of seeing these smaller day to day details as obstacles I can see them as opportunities that will sharpen me and draw out responses of someone growing in holiness.

On the flip side I know people who constantly let the menial details of life define their outlook and behaviours like Martha did at the meal with Jesus. I am guilty of having done the same, but I believe strongly that this is not a correct or healthy approach to living. Much like Martha, I might have stressed or even snapped back at someone in an unforgiving moment, but Jesus wants me to bear my responsibilities with joy and grace (which He provides if we ask Him). He wants me to receive faith and be filled in order that I can give. What I’m saying is that Christ wants to be ‘all in’ with us. He invites us to sit at His feet and let His perspective become our perspective.

A verse that has always stood out to me is this: “Now thanks be to God who always leads us in triumph in Christ, and through us diffuses the fragrance of His knowledge in every place.” – 2 Corinthians 2:14

Isaiah 26:3 “You will keep him in perfect peace,
Whose mind is stayed on You,
Because he trusts in You.”

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